Motivation for the project

The first version of the app was pretty straightforward—just card decks with questions designed to spark meaningful conversations during dates. I generated 300 questions using ChatGPT, and then tested them out with my girlfriend. It was fascinating to see how well they worked. We ended up talking for hours, diving deep into one question for three minutes or more. One unexpected discovery? The screen timeout was too short—it kept dimming mid-conversation. Not ideal when you’re having a great talk.

Over time, I started wondering if I could expand this idea into a broader toolkit for couples. I reflected on my 20s and thought about what might’ve actually helped me back then. I wasn’t the type to track happiness or conflicts—or really anything emotional. Life was kind of on autopilot. But I’ve since realized there’s a balance—a healthy level of tracking that can make a difference.

That’s when I added the relationship status calendar. The idea was simple: a way to log how the relationship felt each day.

To make it stick, I set a notification to remind me to log every day at 10:30. Sometimes I’d log right after a fight or in the middle of feeling upset. What surprised me was how therapeutic it felt. Just the act of naming your emotions—of being asked to describe what’s happening—creates a moment of clarity. It’s a small habit, but it makes you pause and really think about what’s going on.

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